Please don't do this. It trivializes and degrades the solemnity of marriage to have a pretend wedding for the sake of nifty clothes and partying. It's only a wedding if there is a marriage taking place.
That said, I love parties and I love the idea of couples reaffirming and celebrating their commitment to each other. How about this? Save up for a great party with live music, fancy cake, chauffered limo, oceans of champagne, seated meal and all -- but make it an anniversary party or a birthday party or a TGIF party or just about any kind of party, but NOT a wedding.Would it be possible to have a ';second wedding'; to make up for the low-budget one my wife and I had in January?
Well you could have a vow renewal ceremony ... but personally I don't know why anyone would do that very soon after the wedding. I would wait until an important anniversary or something - like 10 years or 25 years. If you are already married, then you can't exactly have another wedding. I mean some people do, but I personally don't see the point. And if you didn't have the money in January, how can you afford it now?
instead of having a second wedding, why don't you save that money for a wonderful honeymoon, a downpayment on a house or car, or home improvements? Your wedding day is JUST a day. What matters is your lives together. Even if it was low-budget, it was still your wedding day. Spend the money on something more important that you two can enjoy together.
I DEFINATELY think that you should =)
It'd be very sweet and show her that you ADORE her.
I wouldn't suggest doing it so soon, maybe sometime later this year?
You can just re-do the whole thing because people will understand that your last one was just TOO low-budget, and honestly it's gonna be the same as a traditional wedding.
And, I advise to you that you save up around 20K or so to really give her the wedding of her dreams. Trust me, it'd mean a LOT to her.
You can have a 2nd wedding in 30 years when you renew your vows.
Having one now so soon after you just got married would seem as if you're only wanting more gifts.
If you wanted a bigger wedding you should have waited until you saved up enough money.... even though you were so in love, then you could have waited.
Sorry, no do-overs.
You can do whatever you want. You can have a second wedding, you can just do a reception, you can renew your vows, you can call it a ';Wanting to do it right this time'; wedding and make it very light and funny for your guests....Do what makes you both feel good!
Obviously you would have to wait longer than a few months. And for the sake of nay sayers I would avoid calling it a ';second wedding'; and call it an anniversary party or something along those lines.
No you can't. You can renew your vows on your 10th anniversary but you can't call it a second wedding or treat it like one. You get one wedding to the same person and life doesn't offer do-overs.
NO. Have a party on your 5 year anniversary or something. The point of a wedding is to get married, you did that already.
Some people say ';no you can't you had your wedding day';. I personally say do what you want. It's your money.
Just ignore the nasty posters.
OF COURSE!! My sister couldn have her honeymoon last year around late august because of low budget, so they plan to do that this spring. Its alwayz possible for a second wedding. Best of luck 4 yuu both
There is no shame in having a low budget wedding in this economy. It doesn't matter so much so long as you love your wife and she loves you!
It's called a ';renewal of vows';, and it's up to you if you want to have one.
Hell yes you can! Ive heard of people having a 2nd wedding ceremony on their 25th anniversary. Heard about people having it on their 50th. But yes you can have a 2nd one at anytime. About setting up a reception im not sure(meaning I don't know how to go about doing it, not if you can do it). But I do know that you CAN have a 2nd wedding ceremony.
Edit: wow all you people giving thumbs down to the people who said you can have a 2nd wedding ceremony are quite unremarkable. Its a wedding ceremony. You can have another one if you want. Its not a choice of whether YOU yourself want one or not. Its a choice of if he wants one. Its about CAN he do it, not should he do it. Read the question clearly.
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